Dano,
By the looks of your flechette I doubt that it was loaded in a 12 ga. shotshell. It is not the right length. You can see from my photo that the flechette loaded in the shotshell is very short, about 1 inch in length. The shotshell shown is one of those with the flechette loading with a window cut in it to show the pusher plate and the white foam pellet matrix surrounding the flechettes. There was also a green plastic casing that I know of and there may be more. Also in the photo is a flechette from the 105mm APERS projectile for comparison. Without knowing the exact size and weight of yours it is hard to tell, but it looks like yours may be from a 105mm. That flechette is about 1 1/2 inches long. Also included is one of the layers of flechettes from a 105mm projectile with and without the aluminum skirt around the outside. Each layer had a steel pusher plate and the flechettes were sewn together with two continual threads in a nose to tail pattern. Once fired the thread borke apart and the flechettes all oriented themselves in the air to fly point first. This turning also aided in creating a wider dispersion pattern. The final photo is one I have posted before of part of my flechette collection. They are a fascinating study, but very little information exists on them unfortunately.